How big is baby: 4.5 inches long, or the size of an avocado! I can tell baby is growing like crazy because I have officially popped, I would say! Gone is the flat upper belly between my bust and my little pregnancy belly. Now, it is fully round from bust to below my pant line! There has definitely been some belly feeling/poking action among friends and family! This weekend, my dad looked at my belly, and keep in mind he saw me only two weeks ago, and he looked up at me with shock on his face! My belly is growing by the second!
Weight gain/loss: Truthfully, I haven’t weighed myself in the past week. I’m nervous for my 16 week appointment tomorrow because this weekend consisted of two parties with tons of food and a whole day at the state fair where we were munching like crazy! I’m sure I’m up a few pounds, but I’m determined to make sure those extra pounds from bad food will not stick around. Note: these photos were taken before the two parties and state fair food, so that belly is all baby!
Sleep: Sleep has been no fun! I definitely cannot lay on my stomach anymore, which is very hard from me because that’s the only way I can normally fall asleep. I’m also not supposed to lay on my back, so I’ve been putting a pillow between my legs, but I wake up frequently with the pillow on the floor or at the foot of the bed. Also, I’ve been extremely congested due to sickness around me, allergies, and probably pregnancy. I’ve been waking up often to blow my nose. I think it’s time for a body pillow so at least I can stay until I need to blow my nose.
Stretch Marks: None yet
Cravings: No really strong cravings.
Aversions: Still chicken and just random things at night.
Movement: Nothing that I can tell. I’ve been really trying to feel something, anything, but nothing yet.
What I’m loving: I’m just loving my belly. I finally don’t look like I just gained a bunch of weight in my midsection. I officially look pregnant. Right now, I love people looking at my belly and friends and family noticing how big it is getting. I’m not ready for rude comments in the coming months, but I’m just soaking it all up right now! I can only imagine how large this belly is going to get! I am a little obsessed with rubbing my belly. I’ve dreamed of doing that for so long!
Symptoms: Bloody noses and bloody teeth when I wake up has not been fun, but it supposedly a symptom. I never realized how much pregnancy impacts every system in a woman’s body!
What I’m excited about: I’m excited that my 16 week appointment is tomorrow so we can not only make sure all is well with the baby but we can finally schedule the 20 week anatomy scan! I think I may die of excitement once the date is set. I’m not sure I will sleep for the next few weeks, just dreaming of whether this baby is a boy or a girl. I just can’t wait to get started on the nursery, to register for gifts, to settle on a name, and just learn more about this little amazing miracle growing inside of me!
What I’m nervous about: With each appointment, I always get a little worried that things may not be okay. I have no reason to think that, and immediately pray and thank God for a healthy baby so the fears go away, but they love to creep back. I also have been feeling nervous/guilty about eating. Overall, I’ve been eating pretty healthy, but this weekend I went to two parties and the state fair, so I felt pretty guilty eating so badly. I just don’t want to do anything to mess this baby up, but at the same time, nine months is a long time to deprive myself of all yummy foods, so I’m trying to balance it.
We are at it again! We love prepping our meals out on the weekends and eating them throughout the week so we don’t have to worry about cooking when we get home or choosing unhealthy foods on the run for lunch.
I was craving tacos this week, so that’s what I made us for dinner using ground turkey instead of beef. San made two lunches (only one is shown in the video): ground beef and shredded barbecue chicken, both with broccoli and rice. I made myself some shredded chicken sandwiches and corn.
Last Wednesday, August 13th, was our third anniversary! If we weren’t sure by then, we are sure of it now that we are officially beyond the newlywed phase, and that is quite alright by me!
We usually do something fun and out-of-the-norm for our anniversaries, but we don’t usually go crazy because as much as an anniversary is a great reminder of how far we come and of our wedding day, we try to make every day a priority to let each other know how much we care. With our schedules being so off, we only see each other a few hours a week right now, which is definitely not ideal, but I knew going into our wedding day that chef’s schedules vary dramatically day-to-day and season-to-season. Thankfully, San had last Thursday off and I was able to get out a little early so we could celebrate properly.
I even had time to curl my hair which was so nice considering I spend all day with kids and don’t feel especially pretty after my ten-hour days.
We went to one of our favorite little restaurants called the Blue Door Pub in St. Paul. I went to St. Thomas in St. Paul, so we spent a few years going to local restaurants that we fell in love with. It’s always fun to go back and visit them!
San’s celebratory drink of choice is always beer and mine is almost always root beer, even when I’m not pregnant!
We started off with “Latin Kisses” or cream cheese-stuffed jalapenos wrapped in bacon. They were heavenly! We are huge jalapeno and bacon lovers!
I ordered a Breakfast Blucy, which if you didn’t know, the Twin Cities is well-known for its cheese-stuffed burgers which are called Juicy Lucys. The Blue Door Pub calls theirs Blucys. My burger came with bacon and an egg on top and was stuffed to the brim with cheese inside. So delicious! And I love their tots!
San ordered their special which had ham and pulled pork with a mustard aioli on top and onion rings. So delicious! San can sure eat and finished his and ate some of mine as well!
To keep the celebration going, last night (the following Tuesday), we had another night together, so San made us bacon and cheese stuffed chicken breast, homemade mac and cheese, and dinner rolls. It was heavenly and there is even some mac and cheese leftover for me to devour throughout the week!
I’m one lucky woman to be married to such a wonderful man! We are just so overjoyed by everything that is happening in our marriage right now an had fun celebrating this extremely special time.
How do you celebrate anniversaries?
Something about spending most of a year renovating your house makes one a little hesitant to take on more house projects. Even easy ones! Although we have added board and batten to our dining room, added a gallery wall, and other small updates to our home’s decorating, we still had yet to paint the bathroom, master bedroom, and second bedroom. They had swatches all over the walls for well over a year, but now, I’m happy to report that two out of the three rooms are swatch-free!
It only took bribing one of my best friends and her fiance, who has painted for a living before, to help us paint the bathroom and master bedroom in exchange for pizza and beer for us to finally get this project done. Thank you so much, Megan and David!
We went with a pale blue-green in the bathroom. It’s so vintage and crisp in person. We love it! It’s Valspar Belle Grove Sorbet. We exchanged our yellow shower curtain for a white one with some stitched detail, and it is just so light, bright, and happy like the rest of our house.
The master bedroom was a bit of a conundrum when it came to picking a paint color. We had various shades of blues, teals, and grays before realizing that none of those were our choice. The rug in our master bedroom looks gray, but it is actually more of a taupe. We had it in the living room originally and it looked horrible in there because the brown tones came out when it was against the light gray walls. So, we decided to go with a very pale taupe color. It has some gray in it, but it looks like a very pale tan. It’s Olympic Canyon Trail. I’m not in love, although I don’t hate it either, but we don’t spend our waking hours in there anyway, so it’s not a big deal to me. It’s neutral so now we can add some color. I’m thinking of changing out the comforter with something colorful and recovering the headboard.
I’m so happy to not have any swatches on the walls in these rooms anymore! It’s funny how we can grow used to things if they stay the same for long enough. We didn’t paint the nursery yet, because although I’m pretty set on a color whether the baby is a girl or a boy (we are thinking neutral walls with pops of color – big surprise, right?), we don’t want to make a final decision until we learn the baby’s gender at 20 weeks.
What’s something small you’ve done to your house recently that gave you a sigh of relief when it was done?
How big is baby: 4 inches long or the size of an apple! I read that the baby will be doubling in size in the next few weeks! I can’t wait!
Weight gain/loss: Overall, I’ve gained about two pounds.
Sleep: Sleep is still pretty much the same, but last night I did end up sleeping in, but it was only because it seems I’ve come down with a cold. I was up a ton to blow my nose, but I slept until 8am! That was quite a feat for me!
Stretch Marks: None yet
Cravings: No really strong cravings.
Aversions: Still chicken and just random things at night.
Movement: Nothing that I can tell.
What I’m loving: I am OBSESSED with the new maternity shorts I bought at Target! I’m wearing them in the photo above. I am to that point where it is super uncomfortable to wear my regular shorts and pants, especially when sitting down, so I’m just ecstatic to have some pants with an elastic band and no zippers or buttons to mess with. I seriously would wear shorts like this for the rest of my life! I will be posting a maternity/pregnancy video with more specifics on the shorts and other products we’ve purchased in the next couple weeks.
Symptoms: My newest symptom drove me to the doctor’s office on Friday! I explain it in detail in the video below (so watch at your own risk), but basically I was having some very unusual pain “down there.” They brought me in to check my urine and to check me out for any infections, for a dilated cervix, or any other abnormalities, but to no avail. It looks like it’s just another fun pregnancy symptom to add to my list!
What I’m excited about: I’m excited beyond belief for the state fair next weekend!!! And, I get to hang out with two of my best friends, both who are having parties on Saturday. I’m also super excited to be showing and to wake up every day to a slightly different belly. I love the reminder that our precious little baby is right there just growing up quickly so we can meet him or her! And lastly, I’m excited for my 16 week appointment next week so I can FINALLY schedule our 20 week ultrasound! I am dying to set the date so I at least know when we will find out the gender.
What I’m nervous about: With my newest symptom, I’m nervous about the pain and other symptoms to come. Of course, I know birth is going to be painful, but I was not expecting such weird, unexplainable pain during pregnancy, especially this early. I’m willing to go the distance for a healthy baby and mom, but it’s not going to be easy!
And here is our biweekly video!
We are prone to paper clutter. Are we alone? I don’t know what it is, but we have lived for the past three years of our marriage with piles of papers around the house, usually on the dining room table. We make lists and leave them out so we remember to look at them. When mail comes in, instead of having a place for all the different types, they would sit in different piles. I can’t stand it anymore! So, I decided to become proactive! I created a home management binder using mostly free printables (for now) until we know for sure it works for us. I’m tempted to design my own binder pages one day, but for now, it seems to be working for us. Come along on a tour of our Home Management Binder!
- My Filofax post with video
- Binder @ Staples
- Alejandra.tv Binder Video
- Folder dividers
- Label maker
- Martha Stewart teardrop stickers
- Laminator and pouches
- Project management notebooks post with video
- Date night post
- 2014 Monthly Calendar
- 2015 Monthly Calendar
- Weekly Docket Planner (this wasn’t free, but was purchased in a limited-time bundle with a bunch of other printables)
- Master To-Do List
- Two To-Do Lists (we use one for me and one for San)
- Bill Tracker
- Grocery/Shopping List
- Pantry Inventory
- Freezer Inventory
- Cleaning Chart (I wrote in all the chores and added the color coding in Photoshop)
- House Projects
- Bucket List
Remember my big plan for our dining room after the board and batten was installed? I planned on adding a gallery wall above the board and batten as well as finally adding some curtains and changing out the chandelier. Before we did the board and batten, I made a Photoshop rendering of what it would all look like:
Last time you saw the dining room, it looked like this:
Of the three things left to do, we can check two of them off the list: adding a gallery wall and curtains!
It now looks like this:
We ended up going with simple navy curtains after trying out quite a few in this space. I found some that I loved (finally), but realized that the standard 84″ panels were just too short. The curtain rod would have sat right across the trim at the top of the window, which just looked horrible. I have learned years ago about hanging curtains high and wide to make a window seem bigger (and to let in more light), so I definitely wanted to go that route. It’s funny that we don’t have tall ceiling but somehow standard curtains do not work for us. Maybe our windows are higher than normal? I’m not sure. We ended up going with my favorite and most affordable option – Merete curtains from Ikea. They don’t seem to have the navy panels online, but they were in the store. They are actually the same curtains we used (only in white instead of navy) in our living room that I painted stripes on. I like the style and the way they lay. They were about $30 for two panels, which as a huge deal compared to the other ones we were looking at!
The reasoning behind the gallery wall is simple. I loved our gallery wall we had in our hallway right when you entered our last apartment. I would stare at it often. It was such a beautiful reflection of our marriage and life together. So, I really wanted to add one to our home. Why the dining room? Well, first of all, the wall opposite the buffet has two eyesores on it: a vent and a smoke detector. Not exactly beautiful, and definitely not easy to work around. Sure, we could have painted the vent, but it is not recommended to paint smoke detectors, and the positioning of them made it nearly impossible to spread any other kind of art out in a way that would look nice on the wall. So, instead of working against the eyesores, we worked with them! By filling the wall up with frames, the vent and smoke detector go unnoticed by most who enter our house. We plan on changing the smoke detector out for a white one (it is currently cream) so it blends in even more, but it works for now. We also decided to do this in our dining room because it is the center of our home. It connects the living areas (kitchen and living room), it is where we spend a ton of time, and it is visible from most places in our living area. We love that where we come together to spend time together houses a beautiful collection of photos, art, and special keepsakes that we adore.
Now for more photos!
I’m not going to go through every piece of art, because most are photos from our past, our wedding, or photos I have taken. Some were cut out from magazines. Some were created by me in Photoshop. Some are paper goods from our wedding. Some are stock photos I found online for free and printed. Some are special pieces I bought for San. Some are pieces of art or greeting cards we have accumulated over the years. There really is no way for me to source everything, but if you have a question about something you see, ask in the comments and I’ll do my best to point you in the right direction!
At the center, I placed a wide, thick frame I believe we picked up at a garage sale years ago. I thought it would be the perfect frame to have in the center and to build all the other frames off from (if it looks uncentered in other photos, it is simply because I used a wide-angle lens and am shooting at an angle – the frame is centered on the wall). I thought it would be fitting to create an “established” sign with our last name and the year we got married since that is what this wall is a reflection of – our marriage. I simply measured the frame, found some nice fonts and created a document in Photoshop. I then sent it to Staples to be printed for $7. It’s perfect and we love it!
As for the frames, they are mainly Ikea, but many are from dollar stores and garage sales. I simply bought some Krylon white spray paint that can be painted on any surface and gave them all a couple coats so they wold match. I love the diversity of size, shape, matting, and design.
In our last apartment where most of these hung previously, I used the method of measuring the space I was using, laying all the frames out on the ground to see what they would look like, and then hanging newspaper cutout replicas of the frame on the wall to make sure the sizes would work on the wall. This time around, I didn’t bother laying them out on the ground first. Instead, I traced them all with newspaper again and assigned them all a number. Then, I hung all the cutouts on the wall, shifting, adjusting, and rearranging as I went. Then, starting in the middle, I started hanging them. I started in the middle because I knew for sure I wanted that long frame there, so if frames didn’t end up looking good next to it, I could change them before getting half way through with the whole project and having to start over. I changed a lot as I went, so I’m happy I did it this way so I didn’t have to feel locked in to a certain configuration. At the end, I looked for gaps and then measured those areas and searched for cheap frames to fit. The dollar stores and stores like Menards and Home Depot were great at helping me gather the last frames (some of them very small) without spending a ton.
We just love how it turned out! We have plaster walls, so I have been intimidated ever since our renovation about hanging anything on them for fear that they will just crumble to pieces. An employee at Menards tried to convince me that I would need to anchor every little frame, even the tiny, light ones since I was working with plaster. I’m so glad I didn’t listen! I simply used a picture nail for most of the small frames and anchored only the larger, heavy ones. For the small ones that were likely to shift, I cut the Command picture hanging velcro in half (so each strip could be used twice instead of using two strips on one frame) and stuck it to the bottom center of those frames and the wall to keep them from shifting. I haven’t had to adjust any of the frames even once in the two months since I tackled this project!
Since photos are great, but a video is much better for showing what a room actually looks like, I’ve included a video!
Where do you keep your sentimental photos/keepsakes? Do you display them or keep them hidden away for safe-keeping?
Many people have asked me how I am able to customize my Filofax using printables I find or make. Usually, people have trouble print, cutting, and punching the printables to fit in their planners exactly how they want them to. Every page in my Filofax, besides my monthly calendar, I have printed, cut, and punched to fit into my A5 Aqua Malden Filofax. It took a little trial and error at first, but now I feel that I am a pro! I whipped up a video for those of you interested. Keep in mind that I am showing you how I do a week’s worth of my daily pages (plus an action list that I use at the start of each week to write down things I need to get done before I plan each individual day), so your printables might be different, but usually the method will be very similar. This video can also still help you if you are using a size other than an A5, but you will simply need to figure out the measurements on your own (or search online) for exactly how much to take off on each side for your page to be exact specifications for your planner and for all the pages to line up perfectly.
I apologize for how quickly I was going through everything in this video. I had limited time to film it, but wanted to make sure I got it filmed so I could help those who are struggling with this. If you have further questions, please leave them in the comments section here or on the video and I will be happy to help you out further as much as I can!
Products Mentioned in the Video:
- Rainbow Planner (none of the pages shown in my video are from the actual Rainbow Planner download, but check it out if you like the design of the pages I showed)
- Daily Page: I can’t find it, so I’m thinking I must have downloaded it from a private FB group and it is unavailable now (I customized it anyway, so you can’t find anything close to what I have in the video anyway without doing it yourself)
- Tasks Kit (I use the first page of this kit for my action list at the start of each week of daily pages)
- Swingline Paper Cutter
- HP LaserJet Pro 200 Color MFP Printer (M276nw)
- Adjustable 6-hole Punch
My belly is definitely just getting wider from the side view. I’m sure some of that could have been from the multiple hot dogs I ate for lunch at my parent’s when we were welcoming in their new fire pit! I haven’t eaten so much in one sitting this entire pregnancy and I was still hungry! I didn’t eat breakfast, so it may have had something to do with that.
How big is baby: 3.5 inches long or the size of a lemon! It’s funny how these past few weeks, the same fruit are being used to describe the baby’s size even though the baby is getting bigger. I liked reading the baby is about the size of a fist – that I can picture!
Weight gain/loss: Still hovering around my pre-pregnancy weight.
Sleep: We had a wonderful weekend and stayed at my parent’s house and I got the best sleep I have in months! I think the bed was comfier, we were extremely exhausted, and they have dark curtains, so we weren’t woken up by the sun. I slept a full eight hours without waking up!
Stretch Marks: None yet
Cravings: I mostly crave cheesy things, but I haven’t had any consistent, strong cravings.
Aversions: Still chicken and just random things at night.
Movement: I am not certain, but I felt something very deep and low that felt a lot like small vibrations or shaking. It was very similar to what I felt during my HSG dye test during our infertility testing when a balloon was placed in my uterus, but it was not painful or uncomfortable. I imagine it was what people describe as a flutter, but at this point, I have no clue! My intestines and other organs are being pushed all over the place right now, so it could have been something else.
What I’m loving: I’m just loving this little baby. I haven’t bonded per say, but I have been falling asleep and waking up rubbing my belly, just dreaming of meeting our little one. I really feel that there is something “extra” in my body, like there is some mass in there, so it is really cool to now actually feel pregnant when before I was just nauseous and tired. I’m also excited to see my belly growing and am hoping soon it will look like a pregnant belly and not like I just ate too much this summer!
Symptoms: Nausea around supper time, I’m still very exhausted at the end of the day, and some irritability thrown in there. Not much more than that, though!
What I’m excited about: I’m excited to have no plans this weekend! I expect to get a lot done around the house and get some rest. I love spending time with family and friends, but I also love a weekend with no plans. It’s been quite a while since that happened. Also, it’s our third anniversary this week! I’m so excited to celebrate on Thursday!!!!
What I’m nervous about: After a conversation with two good friends about birth (one who has gone through it twice and one who has never been pregnant), I am a little worried about attempting a natural birth. I just picked up Ina May Gaskin’s book and a book on the Bradley method. I figure the sooner I prepare, the better! I know I’m not good at calming myself in intense moments, so I need all the practice I can get in the next five and a half months!
In my video last week, I mentioned that I’m confused about why I am showing since the baby’s heartbeat was found deep within my pelvic bones. I discovered this awesome interactive diagram that shows how the organs shift and move as a pregnant woman’s uterus grows, which explained why I am showing. My intestines are being pushed out and things are shifting upward and outward. I have noticed having trouble breathing already (while filming videos and talking a lot) and my rib cage and waist are so much wider now (from front to back) then they ever were, so I know a lot of things are moving around in there. I can only imagine how hard breathing will be when I have a watermelon baby in there!
It is almost laughable how excited I am to finally be able to share this update with you! You see, in our last home tour video and blog post, we had started turning our second bedroom on the main floor into an office.
Little did we know that three days after posting that home tour, we would conceive our child, so needless to say, the second bedroom will not become an office anymore. I definitely was excited about creating an office, but that was mostly because I needed something to look forward to when my greatest dream of having a baby seemed like something that might never happen. Now that it actually is happening, I am very excited to move everything out of that room and design a nursery!
When I overhauled the now-navy lateral file cabinet in the photo above, I knew that it would have a use even if we got pregnant or adopted down the road. Although we don’t have a space for an entire office right now since the basement remains unfinished, we need the capabilities of having an office on our main floor since I have a photography business and we do normal office-related tasks at our home such as bill-paying, budgeting, filing important papers, preparing our files for taxes, and so on. So, we had to get creative about how we would make our living area, which is definitely not huge, function as a living room and dining room while also functioning as an office. However, the office part had to be secret because we don’t want our home to look like an office when we have people over, so we had to get creative.
Enter our newest addition to our home: an entry way drop zone and little decorative nook.
We brought the file cabinet out of the second bedroom and placed it next to the half-wall on this blank wall that we see upon entering the house:
Now it looks like this!
The file cabinet does not look office-y at all and ties in perfectly with our navy rug in the living room. We absolutely love how this little nook sets the tone of our colorful, quirky, happy house.
On the file cabinet, we have a little pedestal vase filled with some decorative vase filler from Target. Next to that, we have some candy for guests to take when they enter and leave our house. I just love those little details! Stealing the show is my favorite print we own that I got for Christmas two years ago. It’s the Michelle Armas Trellus print. I love how it ties in so many of the colors in our house and is just so vibrant! I can’t help but smile when I see it, and now I get to see it all the time! I also put a decorative blue frame San got me probably six years ago for my birthday from one of my favorite local stores, Patina. It holds one of our engagement photos. In front of that is just a little quote plaque.
I am in love with decorating shelves. We love the ones we have in our kitchen, but those do not get changed up very much because we love them just the way they are. Because we don’t have a fireplace/mantel, I have always wanted a place to decorate for the seasons, to hang stockings from, and to change out whenever the mood strikes. What a better place than in our little entryway portion of our living room? Right now, the shelves were somewhat decorate for Independence Day, but the colors work in our house so I’m just leaving it for now.
Most of the little nicknacks were collected over time or were gifts from friends. I grabbed some of our blue books to add some color and used nicknacks as book ends. The red horse chess piece was a gift and the white ceramic owl (Owlfred as we like to call him) is from a cool Australian store that is in the Mall of America, called Typo. The other wall plaque was a gift, the mason jars I purchased at estate sales and were used in our wedding, the vintage Pepsi-Cola can was found at a thrift store on our honeymoon, and the lantern was purchased at Target, I believe.
On the top shelf, the lantern with a candle was a gift, the Bless this Home frame was a gift and I just painted it with coral paint, and the silver vintage jug was also used in our wedding. The flying pig is actually very special to me. I have always had a thing for pigs (I’ve always wanted a pig named Disco), and I even had Vans shoes with flying pigs on them in high school. I adored those shoes. I don’t remember where I saw the ceramic flying pig, but I had to buy him that second. We named him Edwin, naturally. Anyway, he is signed by John and Sherry from Young House Love during their book tour. Funny story, I was actually mentioned on their blog twice (once in photo form, and once I got an actual mention) because I posted a funny photo of myself holding their book in front of our gallery wall in our old apartment in my pajamas because I was so eager to pick up the book that I walked through our apartment building looking like that to pick it up. I chronicled all the madness and excitement on my photography blog.
Here are some closeups of the decorative goodness:
Now, the file cabinet is not the only way we conceal office storage. In fact, our beautiful buffet we added during the renovation is full of office-related supplies, even a huge color laser printer (WHAT? WHERE?), but you will have to watch the video below to see how we conceal our office supplies in the buffet (and you can see more of the entry way nook as well).